A young boy 25 years was referred to the Caveman last evening at Gurgaon. Evidently suffering from post-breakup heart ache. Boy looked pale and hugely under-confidenced, stammering and lost in pussy promises. He started uttering every detail of his sorry affair with seemingly below average girl with sipping vitalizing organic tea offered by Caveman. One and half hour and he went out to spit every date in calender till meeting to his dumping.
Caveman would only hint out what happened with him and how it has gone out of his hand.
Initially, they started it as a 'good friends' from boy's side. He never had any female friend that would text him in the night and eventually talk. He persisted with being friends and assumed the same role but girl has more interest level than his. Since he is a nice guy inside, he started taking care to which girl presumed that yes this is the guy and yes he too liked this attention. He later revealed that he used to think he is not worthy of this friendship( Not to mention , an indication of low-self esteem). On a certain weekend they went to watch a movie during which girl holded his hand and boy went flat. His 'just friend' wall invaded with feminine touch and they uttered ' I love you' to each other. Soon after boy realised that they are getting more closer fast than he himself has imagined. So because of his own fear of intimacy he asked girl to talk to another colleague so that she stays at certain distance. He just meant to stay a distance but he didn't know that this would cause the girl to think him of a weak man with no guts. Soon after she lost interest and told the boy during shopping that she has moved on. Now our dear boy's mind alarmed. His casual attitude turned serious and he did the grave mistake of asking her to stay with un-usable word ,'' Please Please Please dont move away.'' The grave sign of weakness. Girl got assured that yes now she did right. She stopped picking his calls. So furious our hero went to her office and get angry and lashed out at her to which girls smiled and said take care of yourself. This lashing out made her sure that he is still in to her pussy claws. She moved on from very quickly. His chasing made her run faster away from him.
Although after the shower of truth about relationship, break up and his basic mistakes, his eyes sparked and he understood how a man shall handle his love life and especially during break up scenes.
Few things to mention here which are basic and natural principle:--
# You/Boy/Person/Personality--->Attraction---> Interest-->Liking--->Love---> Start of Relationship---> Maximum Availability----> Least curiosity---->Least Demand----> Fade Attraction---> Fading Interest---> Taking granted--->Further Fading interest and attraction---> Girl fall out of Love--->Boy got dump in mind---> She shows no interest and test your masculinity through subconscious (''I am leaving you'') test-->You plead and beg---> She is gone---->Boy is dumped.
Girl's behaviour can't be held accountable solemnly here. It is boy's behaviour and action which causes attraction to create or fade.So before blaming the girl look at what happened wrong in above mentioned series of events.
I am attaching a video from the Hindi Movie Shikhar where Bipasha Basu Threaten to Leave Ajay Devgan. Notice how he handles this break up.
Watch at 3:50 in the above video how Ajay Devgan open the door,you in every situation of mind , heart and emotion MUST do this or similar to it. If a girl asks you that she is leaving you, just stand up and open the door. By this sort of behaviour of giving them what they wanted will create a doubt and attraction in her heart and mind that you are the real man who can live without her and she cant control you. And more she cant control you, more she would doubt her decision of leaving you.
Enough said.
Caveman Stone 362 # ...be a man who can live without his woman and your woman wouldn't leave without you...''
Caveman would only hint out what happened with him and how it has gone out of his hand.
Initially, they started it as a 'good friends' from boy's side. He never had any female friend that would text him in the night and eventually talk. He persisted with being friends and assumed the same role but girl has more interest level than his. Since he is a nice guy inside, he started taking care to which girl presumed that yes this is the guy and yes he too liked this attention. He later revealed that he used to think he is not worthy of this friendship( Not to mention , an indication of low-self esteem). On a certain weekend they went to watch a movie during which girl holded his hand and boy went flat. His 'just friend' wall invaded with feminine touch and they uttered ' I love you' to each other. Soon after boy realised that they are getting more closer fast than he himself has imagined. So because of his own fear of intimacy he asked girl to talk to another colleague so that she stays at certain distance. He just meant to stay a distance but he didn't know that this would cause the girl to think him of a weak man with no guts. Soon after she lost interest and told the boy during shopping that she has moved on. Now our dear boy's mind alarmed. His casual attitude turned serious and he did the grave mistake of asking her to stay with un-usable word ,'' Please Please Please dont move away.'' The grave sign of weakness. Girl got assured that yes now she did right. She stopped picking his calls. So furious our hero went to her office and get angry and lashed out at her to which girls smiled and said take care of yourself. This lashing out made her sure that he is still in to her pussy claws. She moved on from very quickly. His chasing made her run faster away from him.
Although after the shower of truth about relationship, break up and his basic mistakes, his eyes sparked and he understood how a man shall handle his love life and especially during break up scenes.
Few things to mention here which are basic and natural principle:--
# You/Boy/Person/Personality--->Attraction---> Interest-->Liking--->Love---> Start of Relationship---> Maximum Availability----> Least curiosity---->Least Demand----> Fade Attraction---> Fading Interest---> Taking granted--->Further Fading interest and attraction---> Girl fall out of Love--->Boy got dump in mind---> She shows no interest and test your masculinity through subconscious (''I am leaving you'') test-->You plead and beg---> She is gone---->Boy is dumped.
Girl's behaviour can't be held accountable solemnly here. It is boy's behaviour and action which causes attraction to create or fade.So before blaming the girl look at what happened wrong in above mentioned series of events.
I am attaching a video from the Hindi Movie Shikhar where Bipasha Basu Threaten to Leave Ajay Devgan. Notice how he handles this break up.
Watch at 3:50 in the above video how Ajay Devgan open the door,you in every situation of mind , heart and emotion MUST do this or similar to it. If a girl asks you that she is leaving you, just stand up and open the door. By this sort of behaviour of giving them what they wanted will create a doubt and attraction in her heart and mind that you are the real man who can live without her and she cant control you. And more she cant control you, more she would doubt her decision of leaving you.
Enough said.
Caveman Stone 362 # ...be a man who can live without his woman and your woman wouldn't leave without you...''
